Dating conections

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When someone has walls up, it's always for a reason, but the possibilities for that reason are endless.

As much as it hurts the person you are dating when you do not fully let them in, they know how amazing it will feel when you do finally let your guard down.

That being said, it takes a lot more than just that.This person must be intuitive, have perseverance, and they have to care enough to want to, or need to, break your walls.Unfortunately, some people just aren't willing to try to get in and free you if it seems like a lost cause.Someone would need to have a special connection with you in order to break down your emotional walls.This example returns the count of login attempts as of the current date and time.

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Think of it as a car window on a cold winter's day.

You can't drive the car until you give the windows time to defrost, but you can see the windows defrosting, so you know you're getting somewhere eventually.

You may think the only person who can break your walls is you, but what if someone else could?

Let's fantasize that one day, you meet someone different — someone special who possesses those rare qualities required to free you from your metaphorical prison cell, crush your cynicism and liberate you.

That's how it feels to fall for someone who has emotional walls up.